El SECRETO DE AMAR BIEN

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Cuentan que una bella princesa estaba buscando consorte. Aristócratas y adinerados señores habían llegado de todas partes para ofrecer sus maravillosos regalos. Joyas, tierras, ejércitos y tronos conformaban los obsequios para conquistar a tan especial criatura.
Entre los candidatos se encontraba un joven plebeyo, que no tenía más riquezas que amor y perseverancia. Cuando le llegó el momento de hablar, dijo:
Princesa, te he amado toda mi vida. Como soy un hombre pobre y no tengo tesoros para darte, te ofrezco mi sacrificio como prueba de mi amor. Estaré cien días sentado bajo tu ventana, sin más alimentos que la lluvia y sin más ropas que las que llevo puestas.
Ésa es mi dote…
La princesa, conmovida por semejante gesto de amor, decidió aceptar. Tendrás tu oportunidad: Si pasas la prueba, me desposarás.
Así pasaron las horas y los días. El pretendiente estuvo sentado, soportando los vientos, la nieve, y las noches heladas. Sin pestañear, con la vista fija en el balcón de su amada, el valiente vasallo siguió firme en su empeño, sin desfallecer un momento.
De vez en cuando la cortina de la ventana real dejaba traslucir la esbelta figura de la princesa, la cual, con un noble gesto y una sonrisa, aprobaba la faena.
Todo iba a las mil maravillas. Incluso algunos optimistas habían comenzado a planear los festejos.
Al llegar el día noventa y nueve, los pobladores de la zona habían salido a animar al próximo monarca. Todo era alegría y jolgorio, hasta que de pronto, cuando faltaba una hora para cumplirse el plazo, ante la mirada atónita de los asistentes y la perplejidad de la infanta, el joven se levantó y sin dar explicación alguna, se alejó lentamente del lugar.
Unas semanas después, mientras deambulaba por un solitario camino, un niño de la comarca lo alcanzó y le preguntó a quemarropa:
¿Qué fue lo que te ocurrió? Estabas a un paso de lograr la meta. ¿Por qué perdiste esa oportunidad? ¿Por qué te retiraste?.
Con profunda consternación y algunas lágrimas mal disimuladas, contestó en voz baja:
No me ahorró ni un día de sufrimiento… Ni siquiera una hora…
NO MERECÍA MI AMOR.

Decir que quieres a alguien es muy fácil, demostrarlo ya es otra cosa, para sentir y dar amor del bueno solo hay dos cosas que debes priorizar: Sembrar raíces para que esa persona que quieres se quede y nunca cortar las alas por si decide volar.

 Definir el amor

Te quiero porque no me necesitas para ser feliz. Te quiero porque me quieres bien. No te mides ni tengo que calibrar mis palabras ni mis actos porque cumplimos a rajatabla la presunción de inocencia. Tengo la certeza de que cuando me preguntas qué debes hacer es porque quieres mi consejo y no una excusa. Buscas mi opinión y no mi permiso.

Te quiero porque no me necesitas para volar. Eres, has sido y serás esa persona que se come el mundo a grandes dentelladas. De vez en cuando, nos miramos a los ojos con las manos llenas y la sonrisa amplia e intercambiamos los bocados. Me encanta el sabor de tu mundo. Me gusta que caces tus sueños y que me animes a perseguir los míos y, sobre todo, me gusta cuando los compartimos. De esta manera, vivir es un banquete que no acaba.

Te quiero porque tu forma de mirar es radicalmente distinta a la mía. Tenemos tantas semejanzas como diferencias y nos gusta celebrarlas todas. Los nexos de unión nos hacen fuertes y los de desacuerdo, imbatibles. Juntos, tenemos el doble de puntos fuertes. 


Te quiero porque eres una naranja entera y, por eso, podemos mezclarnos de mil formas para inventar nuevos sabores. Te quiero porque eres tan grande que nada te gusta más que verme crecer… Que el amor no es un lazo que ata sino una onda que tiende a la expansión centrífuga.

Te quiero porque eres libre. Porque nunca me has dicho “te necesito”, “no podría vivir sin ti” ni me has vendido un “siempre” hipócrita que no sabes si cumpliremos. Porque no me idealizas. Sabes que puedo hacerte daño y te da miedo, pero no por ello dejas de estar así de cerca. Decides arriesgarte cada día. Conoces mis defectos tan bien como yo y, sin embargo, apuestas por mí. Yo conozco los tuyos y nunca había tenido tan claro que alguien merecía la pena. Me has enseñado a querer bien y a dejarme querer como merezco.

Te quiero porque no me necesitas para ser feliz. Simplemente, compartes tu felicidad conmigo. Porque somos amigos, amantes, colegas, familia y pareja de baile. Porque somos compañeros de manta, mochila y cerveza. Eres brazo, hombro, cerebro, pierna y sonrisa. Eres todas las cosas. Y ninguna es mía ni quiero que lo sea nunca, no quiero quitarte nada, pero todas están conmigo.

( Los textos son de autor desconocido, fueron copiados y recontados por Adonis)

 

 

 

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