QUIEN TE QUIERE NO TE HARÁ SUFRIR

¿Cómo amar sin poseer?

Amar sin poseer es como apreciar la más bella pintura; estoy aquí, ella aquí, pero no es mía, no soy de ella; yo aprecio su belleza y su belleza es únicamente mía pero no necesito que la pintura me sea recíproca. Un sentimiento tan puro no debe confundirse con algo tan vulgar como poseer.

¿Amar es un pretexto para adueñarse del otro?
No te creo que amar sea eso, pero te creo que sea excusa para poseer. No confundamos posesión con amor; el amor es libre y poseer conlleva un precio que se paga con la exclusión de libertad.

¿Qué te falta el aire?
Comprensible, estás enamorado, pero no amando.

Amar es apreciar al ser amado; sin peros, sin faltas, sin tiempos, con errores, con daños, con años, juntos o separados; pero cuando se ama, se mantiene ese rito que vuelve lo amado en sagrado.

Las personas creen que aman pero en realidad están enganchadas en su necesidad de poseer a otro.
El amor pasa por poder pensar en lo que el otro necesita y en disfrutar si el otro está bien. Todo esto en forma totalmente independiente de si está al lado mío. No se acepta que pueda querer mucho a mi pareja y a la vez que pueda disfrutar con otras personas.

Estás equivocada si crees que el hombre que te ha herido y te ha estado decepcionando una y otra vez va a cambiar. Debes renunciar a esa falsa esperanza si no quieres seguir echando por tierra esos preciosos años de tu vida., él nunca cambiará. Lo que ves es lo que hay. Te estás engañando si crees que puede producirse algún cambio milagroso.

Algunas mujeres viven la extraordinaria fantasía de poder “arreglar” al hombre que aman. Sigue siendo una fantasía. No somos ni sus terapeutas ni sus psiquiatras.

Algunas consideran su incapacidad de seguir adelante sin él como prueba de su gran amor. No lo es. Solo es prueba de su dependencia extrema, patológica en los casos en que él comete abusos físicos o emocionales sobre ellas. La verdad, sin embargo, es que como adultas que son, la dependencia física o emocional no es completa. Solo la sienten como tal…

 Amate primero a ti misma.

Momentos extraños de la vida, todos los cuentos terminan con el príncipe y la princesa que se casan y son felices y comen perdices, ahora me doy cuenta que ese nunca es el final del cuento sino el principio. A veces comen perdices y otras veces las perdices se los comen a ellos. Sea lo que sea lo que esta claro que hay que luchar todos los días, que nada es seguro, que todo es frágil. Y que por mucho amor que exista sino se cuida desaparece.

Nos confunde mucho en una relación que nos perjudica seguir teniendo sentimiento, parece que mientras exista sentimiento, y te dices “todavía le quiero”se tiene que soportar y aguantar una relación, creo sinceramente que es un grave error, si esto se hace, se adolece del sentimiento más importante que es el amor hacia ti mismo. No es suficiente querer si una relación te daña. Cuando aguantas una relación en la que no te respetan, no importa si es de pareja o de otro tipo, realmente te estas diciendo que no mereces nada mejor.

Mereces estar tranquila….A veces da mucho miedo la incertidumbre, no saber como será tu vida…Pero lo que ahora sabes es que lo que tienes te esta destrozando, cada día pierdes más tu propia estima, y tus ilusiones por vivir, coge las que te quedan, confía en ti, aunque al principio no veas la luz, recuerda que todo pasara y llegara un día que te sentirás orgullosa de haber emprendido el camino de tu propia auto superación.

(Los textos son de autor desconocido, fueron copiados y recontados por Adonis)

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