Tu valor no depende de cuanto te quieran los demás
Una profesora de secundaria sacó de su cartera un billete de 20 euros y lo enseñó a sus alumnos de entre trece y quince años, a la vez que les preguntó:“¿A quién le gustaría tener este billete?”. Todos los alumnos levantaron la mano.
Entonces la profesora cogió el billete y lo arrugó, haciéndolo una bola. Incluso lo rasgó un poquito en una esquina; y volvió a preguntar:
“¿Quién sigue queriéndolo?” Todos los alumnos volvieron a levantar la mano.
Finalmente, la profesora tiró el billete al suelo y lo pisó repetidamente diciendo:“¿Aún queréis este billete?” Todos los alumnos respondieron que sí.
Entonces la profesora les dijo:“Espero que de aquí aprendáis una lección importante hoy. Aunque he arrugado el billete, lo he pisado y tirado al suelo… Todos habéis querido tener el billete porque su valor no había cambiado, seguían siendo 20 euros. Muchas veces en la vida te ofenden, hay personas que te rechazan y los acontecimientos te sacuden dejándote hecho una bola o tirado en el suelo. Sientes que no vales nada, pero recuerda, tu valor no cambiará NUNCA para la gente que realmente te quiere. Incluso en los días en los que sientas que estás en tu peor momento, tu valor sigue siendo el mismo, por muy arrugado que estés”.
El amor no se ruega
Cuánto dolor hay en esta frase.“¡Te suplico, no me dejes!”. ¿Le has rogado alguna vez a alguien por amor? Si lo hiciste, no te sirvió de nada, solo hizo sentir muy mal.
Si no quieren estar contigo, rogarle solo te hará sentir fatal.
Si te deja de repente, es natural que tras esa desagradable noticia, no quieras dejarlo ir, le dices sobre lo mucho que lo quieres y dices que sin su presencia no podrás vivir.
En un par de días tú te limpias las lágrimas y decides ser fuerte, porque sabes que no puedes obligar a nadie a amar.
Pero hay casos de personas que persiguen a sus ex durante meses o incluso años, reclamando su amor y pidiéndoles que regresen.
Qué pena es ver a esas personas que se humillan, que destruyen su autoestima y su dignidad, que tan fuerte dependen emocionalmente de una pareja que ya les eliminó de su corazón y de su vida…
¿Para qué necesitas estar con una persona que no quiere estar contigo? ¿Por qué quieres castigarte pasando tu vida con la persona que no te ama y perder las posibilidades de conocer a personas que cada noche estaría dispuesto a bajarte la luna?
Piensa que solo tienes una vida, y personas. hay muchas, tantas como peces en el mar. Empieza a amarte, para no rogar por amor al que no te lo puede dar
El amor es un sentimiento que se vive en plena libertad, sin pedir a nadie que lo ame. Sin estar mendigando amor por nadie, va más allá de toda lógica. Lo bonito lo hace cuando crece de igual intensidad por ambas partes.
Esta situación es temporal, en el momento en que pase un tiempo seguro que puedes ver a esa persona con cierta distancia emocional y ahí ya te será más constructivo retomar el contacto con ella. Por ello, no es bueno cerrar las puertas a todo ni siquiera a la amistad ya que tal vez en algún momento te parezca imposible que puedas ser amigo de la otra persona.
Quererte a ti mismo, para que esa persona especial también lo haga. En el momento menos esperado aparecerá esa persona, que, de repente cambiará tu vida.y vivirás algo maravilloso. Recuerda siempre que, si se hace esperar, es porque será más grandioso de lo que tu mismo esperas.
Recuperándose del rechazo
Ingredientes:
- 1 pieza de aceptación – reconocer que el amor es una decisión que se regala.
- 2 pedazos de compasión – entender que la otra persona no ve con claridad.
- 2 cucharadas de confianza y tolerancia – aceptar que uno es valioso a pesar del rechazo.
- 1 vaso grande de fortaleza – valor para no caer en el maltrato ni dejarse lastimar.
- 1 pizca de humor – encontrar una razón para reír y aprender una buena lección.
( Los textos son de autor desconocido, fueron copiados y recontados por Adonis)
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