EL AMOR Y SUS COSAS

Cuando uno se enamora…

La flor más bella no es la que arrancamos ,sino la que llega a nuestras manos elevada por el viento.

Aunque parezca un contrasentido, cuando mejor se está en pareja es cuando no se tiene necesidad de ella. Para que una relación sea saludable, cada uno de los miembros debe bastarse a si mismo. De este modo, la unión con otra persona añade valor a la vida sin ir en detrimento de la propia identidad.
Muchas parejas se forman básicamente por la incapacidad de los individuos para estar solos. Estas personas tienden a precipitarse en la elección del compañero y una vez establecida la relación adoptan posiciones rígidas que se traducen en celos, posesión e inseguridad. Esto se debe a que no buscan a alguien con quien compartir la existencia, sino un parche emocional.
Aquel que esté lleno de heridas, debería sanarlas antes de ponerse en camino. Lo que uno n o resuelva por si mismo no lo hará a través de una relación sentimental.
Si temes la soledad, pregúntate que es lo que te hace sentir incomodo contigo mismo.
El amor es efectivamente un hecho extraordinario. Por eso es esencial que sirva para elevar nuestra vida y no para suplir una carencia.

Cuando uno se enamora en realidad no ve al otro en su totalidad, sino que el otro funciona como una pantalla donde el enamorado proyecta sus aspectos idealizados.
Los sentimientos, a diferencia de las pasiones, son más duraderos y están anclados a la percepción de la realidad externa. La construcción del amor empieza cuando puedo ver al que tengo enfrente, cuando descubro al otro.
Es allí cuando el amor reemplaza al enamoramiento.
Pasado ese momento inicial comienzan a salir a la luz las peores partes mías que también proyecto en él. Amar a alguien es el desafío de deshacer aquellas proyecciones para relacionarse verdaderamente con el otro. Este proceso no es fácil, pero es una de las cosas más hermosas que ocurren o que ayudamos a que ocurran.
Hablamos del amor en el sentido de “que nos importa el bienestar del otro”.
Nada más y nada menos. El amor como el bienestar que invade cuerpo y alma y que se afianza cuando puedo ver al otro sin querer cambiarlo.
Más importante que la manera de ser del otro, importa el bienestar que siento a su lado y su bienestar al lado mío. El placer de estar con alguien que se ocupa de que uno esté bien, que percibe lo que necesitamos y disfruta al dárnoslo, eso hace al amor.

Una pareja es más que una decisión, es algo que ocurre cuando nos sentimos unidos a otro de una manera diferente. Podría decir que desde el placer de estar con otro tomamos la decisión de compartir gran parte de nuestra vida con esa persona y descubrimos el gusto de estar juntos. Aunque es necesario saber que encontrar un compañero de ruta no es suficiente; también hace falta que esa persona sea capaz de nutrirnos, como ya dijimos, que de hecho sea una eficaz ayuda en nuestro crecimiento personal.
(extracto: “amar con los ojos abiertos”)

No penséis que el amor es eterno. Es muy frágil. Es tan frágil como una rosa. Por la mañana está ahí, y por la noche se ha ido. Cualquier cosa pequeña puede destruirlo. De hecho, cuanto más elevada es una cosa, más frágil es. Ha de ser protegida. Una piedra permanecerá, pero una flor desaparecerá. Si arrojáis una piedra contra una flor, la primera no saldrá dañada, pero la segunda será destruida.

( Los textos son de autor desconocido, fueron copiados y recontados por Adonis)

 

 

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